OK You're saying that you haven't had much luck socially. But that's in the past if you want it to be. Coming to the forum and asking the question is good. It sounds like you're recognising a problem and wanting to change it. So let's start right now.
Have a look at the intention/manifestation posts on Steve's blog. Read them. It sounds simplistic, but if you can draw a line in the sand between yesterday and today, and decide that from now on you're aiming positive, that's be a great way to get going. Just because you haven't socially clicked before, just means you've been learning how not to. So do something different. Intend to have good relationships, and read books on how to. Go to the library and read things like "How to make friends and influence people" It started as a sales book, but is full of commonsense tips for getting on with people well. Tip the balance in your favour, put it into practise, have a go.
What interests do you have? What can stir your passions? Find out ways of interacting with other people who are intersted in these things. Joining clubs is another old-fashioned idea that works. Why do you reckon I'm here? ;-)
That's my 2 cents worth anyway.
Go for it!
Hazel
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