I am 48. I must confess that I have never looked or felt better in my body and “mind”. One of my male friends called it “when a woman blossom”. I agree. There are no more ugly or old women only the ones that do not take care of them selves. I still have all the measurements I had at 25 (2 grown kids 25 and 18), I look very very well. I was always beautiful but now I glow. I know who I am, I am fine with my sexuality, I have made my career, my children have left home, happy, successful – great people. I have a great husband, fantastic lover and great friends. Life is great. Why a lover? My husband is 10 years older and is in andropause (male menopause). My lover is 2 years younger than I. It all works out fine for all. So judging tastes, mindsets, habits or morality is so immature. I used to say to so many thing NEVER!!! Or HOW COULD THEY!!!??? You never know the story behind the story. Do not judge. Live and love and let others live and love.
