I look at the universe and I say, "this is how I want it to happen, but, nevertheless, I would prefer to see it how you would have it happen". This disavows the ego, which is the presumed barrier between what you conceptually regard as "you" and what you conceptually regard as the "object of your desire".
Fear, striving, and dread are manifestations of resistance. Detachment is trust -- the gentle faith that things will happen they way they are supposed to. Where you place your attention, and how you place it is the key. It's okay to think about what you want, but when you feel that become negative, as in it feels like a chore to do, something has gone amiss. I can't overemphasize how important feeling good is to the manifestation of your desires. It really does mean you are achieving vibrational resonance with your desires.
Also, it is extremely important to pay attention to subtle mental images you carry. How do you conceptualize the attraction process? Do you feel like you are a small magnet in a big world? Conceptualize the world and universe as alive and lovingly helping you accomplish your intent (for so in truth it is). Your consciousness is extremely powerful. It is always a good idea to spend some time meditating on the fact that you are worthy of your desires, and that the universe wants you to have whatever you want. There can be loads of subconscious garbage inhibiting your point of attraction. So keep a close eye out for it, and remember the universe is helping you clear that out too.
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