"I never thought I'd hear someone postulate a relation between clubbing and improved social skills! I can't even hear myself think in clubs, let alone hold up a conversation!"
"Really? Were the girls you hooked up with drunk? Personally I don't care for those types of girls, or their STD's!"
Spartan, honestly, you're deluding yourself.
If you really want to know, go out to these "crazy STD filled environments" and see what actually happens when you drop your judgements and labels and just flow and act in the moment (while of course practicising safe sex and being intelligent about it). You might be surprised that clubs are more than what you learned in health class.
Caustic tone aside (I just did that to shake you up and get your attention), I can have fun just staring at a wall, or drinking water from a bottle, or saying random crap to anybody in the vicinity (spreading my own enjoyment, not for their attention). This happens when you drop mental labels and allow your core to just flow. You see the depth of things, not the superficial surface.
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