 pros and cons, aye
Thing is, I'm not very good at breaking things down into pros and cons. I've tried it before with many things, and ultimately I either 1) did what felt right or
2) did what the "authorities" told me to do...
It's not that much that I want to do things all on my own either. I have asked advice on these forums a few times before too. Done it away from the forums, too. Not so much offline, though(maybe a mistake?). But I've always asked for advice from people who I admire, who are inspirational, who I would like to be too. Maybe I should ask more advice from people who are 180 degrees from me? But what use would that be? I don't want to be like them(it's ok to be them, but it's not for me, at least not right now); I could ask for their point of view, but I would put it to the back of my mind, for future use perhaps. |