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Originally Posted by kthdsn  I disagree with the person above who said effort is important. A good relationship is easy and natural. My marriage takes no effort at all. Of course sometimes we don't see eye to eye, but it's not about agreeing all the time. It's about trust, honesty, and caring about each other. I care about my husband so much that making him happy comes easily to me. I always tell him the truth as I see it, and I believe without doubt that he feels the same way about me. |
Hmm, why did you say that kthdsn? Don't you find that to keep a relationship alive, loving and fulfilling needs effort from each person?
Why is a good relationship easy and natural? Are you referring to the understanding of each other part, or is it because compromsing to you is not an issue at all since you are so motivated to making your husband happy and that naturally becomes your first priority? I'm just keen to know as it sounds like you are such a happy couple, and you're doing it like a breeze! Whoo
I know most relationships do need effort, some lots of it. For eg, imagine your partner and you are both very busy in their careers, and if none of you are willing to make the effort to make time for each other (sit down and chat, go out for movies/dinner) then do you think the relationship can last or will be a happy one?
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Originally Posted by Alvin That's interesting. I met someone a long time ago and for ten years I knew in my heart that she was the one I would always be with. But for some reason, it never worked out.
Either that, or I was young and naive  but I choose to go with my romantic side  |
Hmm, how do you know and to know for 10 year???
And, why didn't it work out? (Just a question for you to ponder, don't have to post if it's too private. Or juicy! haha
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