From my experience and what I"ve read, the dynamics of an older man attracted to a, relatively, immature woman are pretty consistent. He's either immature himself, which explains his attraction to an immature woman, which becomes a problem when she matures or he's looking for some sweet young thing to adore him he can mold which becomes a problem when she matures. I really do think this article pegs it if it's a case where the woman is very young.
Whenever you enter into a relationship where one or both parties are immature, you're probably going to have problems when they start to mature. If you're both immature because you're both young, maybe you'll mature together but if one is immature because of age and the other just immature, watch out.
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