There are two reasons why i come to this forum. 1)because I don't know anyone in real life who is into this stuff,and 2)because even if i did,i think i would still rather type it than say it. I hate talking. So you are right,i think we are all social creatures but for whatever reason a lot of us prefer to do it through writing/typing over the internet than talking to people about it. But lets face it...if this forum were instead a huge building where we could gather every day and TALK this stuff out,how would that even work? It would be more like a party and you would have to have good social skills to get to the point of asking your questions/venting your problems. I think writing online is the best way to get right to the point without having to worry about our fears of public speaking,despite our problems with social settings,what have you. |