To be VERY honest... I do go to parties often. Not as I did when I was 14-17 (I know, in Europe we become old earlier, I don't know why... but on the other hand many Europeans leave their parents' home and establish a new family only when they're 40 years old :P), but I do so for several reasons:
- I like to dance (I'm a guy, but I like all forms of music, including dance)
- I like to act crazy and say senseless things: and NOBODY criticizes me because they are drunk :P
But you know what? There has never been any alcohol in my body. NEVER!!!
I am completely mad by myself :P
I also used to club a lot because I used to enjoy casual /nostrings encounters, but I'm fed up with that since long time. Especially because I have lot of other things to think about and would like to start looking for a real long-term thing that might help me establish a family
You should bear in mind one thing: if you want to party, club or drink, do so in premises that
you choose and
you like. If you don't like electronic pop music, there's no sense going to a club that does that music...
Also, don't make it a HABIT to party. Do so only when you want and when you like.