Loneliness can be a tough road, especially when you know you are a good person, with all of the qualities you have, and which women have noticed but not responded to in the way you want them to.
Perhaps the problem is with the women. They may not have matured enough in their own sense of self to appreciate your authenticity and what you have to offer. Believe me, in ten years you will be the one they are searching for as they say to their friends, "All the good ones are taken..." because guys like you really are in demand - the women your age just haven't realized it yet.
Be honest with the women and tell them you are not interested in being the middle-man. Setting some clear bottom lines for yourself will help you avoid feeling used and abused, which can eventually erode your self-concept.
Meanwhile, hang in there and work on being the best you that you can be.
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