Well, the main message I read from your post: I, Pilkington, am lacking.
Why do you want a girlfriend? Why do you want them to say "I love you"? You never once mention, "I'm just full of love and I want to share it with a special girl." Instead, you only say stuff like, "all my other friends have it. Why not me?"
You basically want to use a girl to keep up with the love Jones'. You want a girl to validate your worth, that you are indeed good enough. But - what are you gonna give to her?
I'm a girl, and I'll tell you this: nothing makes a woman swoon like a man who is authentic, strong, and giving. That is SEXY. Maybe insecure women will fall for bravado (fake sexy). But your average, cool girl can sense, through your vibes, whether you are truly sexy.
I suggest you spend time really working on yourself, rather than worry about girls or your friends. Trust me, a quality girl will enter your life when you've become more secure in yourself.
As for ways for you to become more secure - I'm sure this forum is overstuffed with recs for books, websites, etc.
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