Spartan, you're so lucky if you're in your early 20s and already realized that drunken clubbing is a waste of time. I have been there, done that. I haven't had alcohol in years.
From my own experience, I used to drink because it helped me loosen up. I love dancing but I always used to feel so self-conscious unless I was drinking. So there is a certain sense of freedom and courage that would come with drinking. Also, it makes people feel connected, like they're a part of something.
I'm not defending it. I really wish I didn't waste so much time and money partying when I was younger. Some people need to go through that stage before they realize that it leaves them feeling empty inside. Most people grow out of it. Just consider yourself mature and lucky.
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