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C33 · 04-16-2008, 07:54 PM

Funny that people picked up the term "little experience" as frigid, quasi virgin or ready for the nunnery!

My past interaction with younger men has been purely sexual, it was pretty clear from the beginning it was for fun. No one got hurt.

However, I have little experience interacting with younger men as in getting to know them and socialising. I don't know exactly how to "read" them in that context.

I mean: stuff like" you can check me on Google" what does it mean? Is it a come on?

I have a friend who says: you should never go out with anyone you can't Google, so at least, it should sound good to him.

On an ironic, hopefully humorous note: I did have to Google myself to make sure I could reply:" hey, you can Google me" back.

My Google credentials are excellent!

I guess at any age, having a crush on someone makes you quite silly. When you're older you just have to hide it more!

04-16-2008, 07:54 PM	#26 (permalink)
C33 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 623	laughing... Funny that people picked up the term "little experience" as frigid, quasi virgin or ready for the nunnery! My past interaction with younger men has been purely sexual, it was pretty clear from the beginning it was for fun. No one got hurt. However, I have little experience interacting with younger men as in getting to know them and socialising. I don't know exactly how to "read" them in that context. I mean: stuff like" you can check me on Google" what does it mean? Is it a come on? I have a friend who says: you should never go out with anyone you can't Google, so at least, it should sound good to him. On an ironic, hopefully humorous note: I did have to Google myself to make sure I could reply:" hey, you can Google me" back. My Google credentials are excellent! I guess at any age, having a crush on someone makes you quite silly. When you're older you just have to hide it more!