Hello Pattycakes
I also find that when I'm under stress or feeling strong emotions, my intuition feels clouded.
EFT is great for releasing emotions like anger. Have you tried it before? If not, I'd recommend checking out
Tapping.com - Free EFT Videos - Emotional Freedom Technique . There are some free videos on there that show you how to do it.
I hope you can find a way of resolving your situation or of at least making it more bearable.
I'm sending lots of positive energy your way!
Blessings.
Anna