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Originally Posted by Michael Chui  In keeping with my theories on gender-neutrality (and I separate gender from sex), I've had a long-standing inclination to believe that human beings are naturally bisexual. This is hard for me to swallow myself, since I don't seem to be. But at the same time, perhaps it can be explained in terms of the fact that human beings are omnivores: however, some people are vegans, and others are not. Some people make a value judgment via veganism (if you eat meat, you'r evil and horrible!), and others make a similar judgment via heterosexuality.
Similarly, I'd agree with The David and kljsadfhklj in saying that sexual orientation or preference can be changed, again keeping the analogy with dietary habits. We can certainly become vegans, or we can be raised vegans and introduce into our diet some meat.
This makes sense to me. |
It does make sense!!!
I expressed that theory to a few friends, but reckon I would get kicked out of lesbo land if I talk about it too much.
I think that maybe all people can love both men and women, but maybe lots of people have a preference. It is tough for me to swallow too, because I am gay, and have no desire what so ever to be with a guy again.
But I used to like eating meat. When I was fifteen I made a concious choice to give it up. Now the idea of eating meat would make me sick. Similiarly, is it possible, that many lesbians realised that they liked women, and therefore turned themselves off men, subconciously.
I hate the theory. I thought of it, but I hate it. I hate the idea that I could like guys, because I really don't. But I think that there is a possibility that I somehow turned myself off them, like I did with meat, when I realised my attraction toward women. But in saying that, I do think bisexuals have a little preference.
So right now my preference is 99.9% women .01% guys. Buy maybe I could get myself into a state where it was something more balanced like 30%- men 70% - women. I'm not saying I could, but maybe it is possible.