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Jack · 12-01-2006, 10:04 PM

Thanks for answers

But if i believe co-creator model,than i think i can't have full control over my reality,and can blame others...

For example(also this is a real event which happened previous week),My dog stays at a dog-hotel ,and previous week my mother said me that she saw a dream,in which my dog got stabbed.
I started worrying and asking questions about her dream,first she said that she got influenced of something which she heard from media and thought negatively, said that it was just a dream and couldn't understand why i was worrying,then she said that it was just a joke of her,she didn't see the dream she said.I understood that she really saw the dream but was trying to hide it to not to worry me.Then i tried thinking positively,and started saying positive affirmations to myself"my dog is healthy,my dog is healthy".Then,the next day,the telephone rang in the morning,and the caller was my dog's veterinary.(my dog was staying at a dog-hotel) He told my father that my dog had a problem,he can't able to move his back legs,they are not sure about what is my dog's problem,my dog's blood values were not very good.He said that it was looking like a tick infection, but he said that he couldn't understand why my dog doesn't have heat problem and is healthy and doesn't have a physical injury although he can't move his back legs.So i thought like my positive affirmations about my dog's health might work because i heard he was healthy...

But,if i believe to the co-creator model,then i think i may blame my mother cause of her negative thoughts about my dog's state before he got ill,and caused my dog to get ill.Right?
But if i believe to the subjective model,then maybe i was thinking negatively about my dog or my dog's state,my mother's talking to me about her dream was just a reflection of my own thoughts about my dog,so i am responsible %100 of my dog's injury.So i think,in a co-creative model,i can't accept full responsiblity i think,i am not the only responsible nor %100 responsible person of the events.
But if i accept subjective model,then doesn't this mean like i am living in my totaly-own made world-universe?And for example if i stop the war with concentrating on Peace,then it may stop in my world,but it may continue on your world if you are concentrating on war?So are our worlds different and do not intersect?

Did i analyze both models right or is there something wrong?

I would like to listen to the podcast of Steve Pavlina,but have a problem with understanding English words while someone speaking English(my English is not good enough)

Also i want to ask,is the founder of subjective reality Steve Pavlina or is he telling us the details about an already existing theory?

Thanks

12-01-2006, 10:04 PM	#6 (permalink)
Jack Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 577	Thanks for answers But if i believe co-creator model,than i think i can't have full control over my reality,and can blame others... For example(also this is a real event which happened previous week),My dog stays at a dog-hotel ,and previous week my mother said me that she saw a dream,in which my dog got stabbed. I started worrying and asking questions about her dream,first she said that she got influenced of something which she heard from media and thought negatively, said that it was just a dream and couldn't understand why i was worrying,then she said that it was just a joke of her,she didn't see the dream she said.I understood that she really saw the dream but was trying to hide it to not to worry me.Then i tried thinking positively,and started saying positive affirmations to myself"my dog is healthy,my dog is healthy".Then,the next day,the telephone rang in the morning,and the caller was my dog's veterinary.(my dog was staying at a dog-hotel) He told my father that my dog had a problem,he can't able to move his back legs,they are not sure about what is my dog's problem,my dog's blood values were not very good.He said that it was looking like a tick infection, but he said that he couldn't understand why my dog doesn't have heat problem and is healthy and doesn't have a physical injury although he can't move his back legs.So i thought like my positive affirmations about my dog's health might work because i heard he was healthy... But,if i believe to the co-creator model,then i think i may blame my mother cause of her negative thoughts about my dog's state before he got ill,and caused my dog to get ill.Right? But if i believe to the subjective model,then maybe i was thinking negatively about my dog or my dog's state,my mother's talking to me about her dream was just a reflection of my own thoughts about my dog,so i am responsible %100 of my dog's injury.So i think,in a co-creative model,i can't accept full responsiblity i think,i am not the only responsible nor %100 responsible person of the events. But if i accept subjective model,then doesn't this mean like i am living in my totaly-own made world-universe?And for example if i stop the war with concentrating on Peace,then it may stop in my world,but it may continue on your world if you are concentrating on war?So are our worlds different and do not intersect? Did i analyze both models right or is there something wrong? I would like to listen to the podcast of Steve Pavlina,but have a problem with understanding English words while someone speaking English(my English is not good enough) Also i want to ask,is the founder of subjective reality Steve Pavlina or is he telling us the details about an already existing theory? Thanks Last edited by Jack; 12-01-2006 at 10:13 PM.