[garentee]

being attracted to unavailable women is a pain in the a%$.That said usually the reason it ever happens is that you yourself are unavailable. I sense that Jamie is in that camp based on some of the comments he has made. It is a strange place to be when someone tells you this. I have a really good friend who just told this to me the other day and it has sent me scrambling all over the place looking at things that I havent looked at before... I am striving to become more available to the outside now that i know that my patterns are all from my own fears and insecurities. the long and short of this very interesting topic is that We as humans need to communicate better with one another and this forum is a great tool for that. Weather women go for good guy or bad guy or what have you is really based on whats in their past and whats on their plate at the present time. Nothing that anyone does or says is because of you. It is what is in their reality at the time. So it is best to take nothing personally and make no assumptions. The best book that I have read recently that deals with this sort of thing is called the four agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.. As usual disjointed thoughts and not enough time to string them together right now. Great topic.G