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Originally Posted by Vasilisa  Then your main problem is that you are in love with unavailable woman.
Unless subconsiously you tend to fall in love only with unavailable women to
give yourself a reason not to act and be safe from rejection. It's just a thought. |
Well ... with one unavailable woman. It's not something I make a habit out of!!
The thought had crossed my mind, that subconsiously I have a lot of mis-givings about relationships and women in general, and that maybe I am sabotaging my 'chances' by (on a soul level?) falling in love with unobtainable women. It is possible.
It's a challenge for me to gain anything of positive value from the situation. I do though, and it teaches me a lot about myself, and about the nature of love.
Many people say that love hurts; and having been in this situation with this woman for maybe 5 years, I have to disagree. Love never hurts. It's the wanting and thinking that hurts, it's when our minds turn love in to 'wanting to possess', that's how we torture ourselves.
I want a hot girlfriend. Someone who also resonates with me, on a soul level.