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Old 04-14-2008, 03:07 AM   #25 (permalink)
Stephen
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Originally Posted by Angela View Post
I like Stephen's "whisper in your ear" metaphor, and I like your "martial art" metaphor, too, GoingPrimal!

I think it's all in your intent -- are you generating something, or are you trying to *get* something that you don't already have?
Quite possibly its just a bit of fun; a personal thing between two people, unknown to others. In a way it might raise the self esteem of both parties as they feel 'wanted' or 'sexually attractive'; either by looks or by word.

It may be a nice feeling to be a recipient, but your partner might not be too happy. Hence my first sentence above.
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