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Originally Posted by GoingPrimal 
With the group of guys who seem to be only after sex, use your body language. They may be too dimwitted to pick up on it, but fold your arms, cross your legs and point your feet and body away from them. You can still be nice on the surface but sub-communicate through your body language that you have no interest.
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lol I wish you were a woman so you could see how this would not work! In fact i posted about this a few months ago. Obnoxious,perverted men do not pick up on these clues! You can sit 10 feet away from them,with your arms crossed,talking to another guy,and they'll still try to get with you. I have major problems with this,i always attract the guys like this,that no matter how you try to show them you're not interested,they don't care,they keep trying. Some of them,online,add you on messenger without you asking,and then they dont take no for an answer and i ALWAYS have to block them.
and Blueberry,i go through this same thing...i grew up being picked on and i never thought i was good looking,but as an adult i KNOW there is nothing wrong with my looks (although i'm not perfect,but i'm cute and lovable) and i have the same situations where i feel like guys are just after me because i'm a girl and they're horny. And then,when i DO make friends with guys,just friends,who i usually tend to get feelings for,they turn out to be gay! Which leads me to think that men are either gay or desperate and after any woman they can get. Where is the middle ground here?! Where are the single,STRAIGHT men,who don't force themselves on women?