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Originally Posted by Jennihul  Total cop out. Dad's have the same options as moms when it comes to representation in court and most of them opt out of getting their own attorney and hoping the woman doesn't screw them. Passive. Lame. He sacrifices his right to ♥♥♥♥♥ and moan at that point. If a man supporting his children thinks he is an ATM, he should not have gifted his sperm to a woman in the first place.
Somehow, in the course of this thread, women became the evil bad guys. It is a statistical anomaly that you are exploiting. |
well I'm not saying that statistics are the final word on anything, but how exactly can you prove that the reason woman file for divorce is cause the man "fails" or "gives up"? How can you prove that the system is perfectly fair to men, they just don't try? And if in fact you are correct, and that men are simply not trying and it's a trend, why might this be? Is it that all men are "passive" and "lame" (which I personally think is a cop out), or is it something deeper?
Not to mention a man hoping his wife, who swore to stand by "in sickness and health" and all that crap (which I realize has NO meaning in the modern age), doesn't take him to the cleaners legally is "passive" and "lame"? I suppose you think long, drawn out legal battles with each side having a superstar attorney is just perfectly normal and in the best interest of the kids? Who after all are what's really important, am I right?