[derec1121]

Ok, so I've been dating this girl for a couple of months now and she all of the sudden started getting real weird on me. Things were going real well for a while and then she started becoming real distant and I started thinking that maybe she was no longer interested, so I myself started backing off and did not contact her. After a little bit of time, she contacts me and tells me that she misses me and all that good stuff, so I start talking to her again and asking if she wants to find some time to get together. She acts like she does, but blows me off 3 straight times so again I say screw it, and I don't contact her anymore. So yet again after almost a week of no contact she comes around again saying she misses me and she's sorry, and that she just got out of a long and bad relationship 5 months ago and is scared because of it. We had a pretty good conversation and I told her that I understand, but in reality I really don't.
I don't know what this girl wants from me. I have been out of relationships before, but I never start dating another person until I am over the relationship, or just comfortable again in general. I'm already pretty attached to this girl and wish it could work out but I'm not really sure where to go from here since this seems to kind of put a damper on how great things were going before all of this. Part of me wants to just cut things off completely to save myself from disapointment, but another part of me really likes her and wants to try to make things work, even though I really have no idea what to do.