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Originally Posted by Erki  But don't really want to be just drifting along, either. It's more like that I feel an aversion, or perhaps fear of having a purpose - that if I have my purpose, then I'm "set" - I wouldn't want my purpose to restrict me, I wouldn't want to have a wrong purpose.
Anyone can relate? |
I understand how it feels to be extremely too organized that everything in your life should be well-planned. It can have a negative effect especially if your expectations and plans will not eventually materialize. This is the negative part of being 'too' planned. But in everything, things abused are always not good. You have to do things in moderation. Accept the fact that there are things in life that will indeed need some sort of a planning. So do this, make big plans, but do not be too hard on yourself if it does not happen, if at all, always think that there are things in life that are beyond your control.
