I flirt with my husband and I flirt with his friends. It's not dirty with them. Innuendo. Silliness. It's not a means to an end. Just me saying to them 'you are a flirtable person.'
If done right, everyone feels a little uplifted for having had the experience. A little ego stroke.
There have been flirt duels, though. When one skilled in the ways of flirt confronts another master, the flirting can degrade into a sort of contest to see who will push the limits and chicken out first. I have learned that in that case people don't generally leave feeling uplifted. Especially the spouse. Not a good idea.
Jennifer
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