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Originally Posted by Amadeus  I said, "well maybe THEIR mother decided that she didn’t love her husband any longer and that it was better to live from a broken home than in one". My wife had a “deer caught in headlights look” on her face and said, "that was a low blow". But it is true isn't it?. |
Amadeus, is this a pattern in your 4-years together, in which one of you says something and the other *reacts* rather than responds, leading to hurt on one or both sides? Also, is being right worth it at the expense of feeling related to the mother of your beloved child?
It sounds like you wouldn't mind having a good relationship with her again, and maybe even reconcile with her. Whether or not you stay together, wouldn't it be nice to start working on productive communication
now, for everyone's best interest?
Good luck; you're in a tough spot. But you also have a lot of power.