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Originally Posted by missing  I'm sure many feminists view your kind of plight as "collateral damage" in the fight against the actual deadbeats. Even if they claim to sympathize, you don't really matter to them. |
I am sure I am jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire here, but what do you mean by that?
Really, I don't know anyone who doesn't have sympathy for the dads who
do want to see their kids and be a part of their lives, but who are prevented. I have a friend who rarely got to see his son and it devastates him to this day. The label deadbeat is for a guy who doesn't care to see his children and has no interest in providing for them. Those guys don't have my sympathy. Everyone who is trying to do what is best for their kids does.