What you are describing is a sad fact of our society. Many men are quite bitter about it, and IMO justifiably so. It's another example of how masculinity is vilified and devalued in the mainstream. Possibly the most destructive and devastating both to individuals and society as a whole. I'm sure many feminists view your kind of plight as "collateral damage" in the fight against the actual deadbeats. Even if they claim to sympathize, you don't really matter to them. I wish you the best of luck but won't lie, you don't have an easy road ahead of you.
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