hello timeline,
i will not give you an advice but i was there before in her situation not yours unfortunately i was in a relation with someone and as in the east it doesnt need to live together to be committed, we were somehow as engaged my mum and brothers knew about him his mother and brothers knew as well. there was no many fights between us the thing is that he felt at a point of time that i am not the one, he started to talk to one other girl he was in love with her before getting to know me i discovered and i was so stupid to forgive him and think it was just a mistake then we continued. then out of a sudden for four or five days he disappeared he didnt try to see me and we were seeing eachother nearly every other day and also no phone calls from him and frankly it shocked me the way he acted i was about to make a very big accident but thanks to god i was saved, it was the worst way someone may leave other one and you know when i called and insisited to sit together to talk he said he was planning to travel to london and it seemed i am not in his plan at all.
of course this was a lie and i stayed for weeks not believing what really happened or how it happened, but then after it was much better to me to know he isnt in love with me i had the chance to meet someone who loves me more. yes sometimes deep inside i feel that i hate that person so much that he hurted me badly but others i just wish him good life and smile, at the end each one of us will have his life and will have another partner. i wrote this all just to tell you dont ever think to stop communicating with her this is the worst way to give her up you might drive her crazy that way. tell her you need time to think, talk with her this is the best way while talking you may discover you love her and need her or she may understand you dont fit eachother anymore. hope this would be of help to her.
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