[Spartan]

Angelwings why do you want to be a 'guy magnet'? Seriously?

Is sex what you're after? If so the internet is a sure bet.

If you're after a loving relationship with someone that loves you for who you are, then being a 'guy magnet' may not prove that helpful. Also, I don't really believe that a 'guy magnet' actually exists. Everyone finds different attributes attractive.

Also, you sound like the stereotypical high school girl who wants to be miss popular, miss pretty, miss bleading perfect! Well that's not the attitude of a mature woman, is it?

Stop being so hard on yourself. Plenty of people haven't had a relationship well into their twenties. Just accept yourself for who you are, and stop idealizing some false image of perfection that doesn't exist.

On another note, do you talk openly with guys about being single? If they knew you were single perhaps they would ask you out. Because I know from experience that a lot of girls who act very flirtatious actually have boyfriends. This tendency amongst certain women makes guys less responsive to flirting in general. Some guys need you to virtually write 'single and looking' on your forehead! Also, you could try asking someone you like out?! Be proactive (if you aren't already being so).