I got clear about how I wanted to be, admitting I wasn't that person yet. Then I started noticing what it was about her that was different than my current self. I slowly became more and more like her while sloughing off the old behaviors that weren't going to be part of the new me.
Working on chakras... long explanation involved here, but the short of it is that you can boost your power in any chakra. Read my blog entry on
chakras for more info.