[BrettAshlee]

Hi Tuumble,

Sorry to hear about your situation.

You may be right about the landlord's story having a few missing links... yet my personal feeling is that to pursue it, whether in action or simply in thought, will expend a tremendous amount of energy "getting to the bottom of it" and you'll be no better off for it in the end.

Instead, consider where you want to spend your energy. Perhaps it truly is time for a change, a move from the city. Get clear on what you really want by getting clear on your values - sounds like the salary-driven job is not at the top of your list, but I bet that's what you spend most of your time with.

You don't have much control about your current living situation, but you can make decisions about the way you want the other parts of your life to work. Try laying aside the temporary stress and distractions of what to do about the kids' schooling, etc. and focus on getting a plan together that takes you closer to what you ultimately want - even if it means another temporary move, or transporting or relocating the kids. It's the big picture that matters. Keep your eye on it, and until then, do what you have to do. It doesn't need to be forever!

The job possibility in the town you visited sounds like something to check out! Perhaps all of your recent challenges are leading to this great new adventure!