Aww this is totally hitting home for me! I can relate to you,Angelwings! I want to change my personality too. And i know what you mean about wanting to feel like a woman not a girl. I am 35 but i look and act like a teenager (the act part is only true sometimes ,of course LOL) But whenever i meet guys and i like them,they only like me as a friend and they usually end up picking on me or laughing at me for how i am. I laugh a lot,i get amused by silly little things and most people just seem more laid back and cool about stuff. I think thats why i give off the 'immature little innocent girl' vibe. I've also barely had sex before so that doesn't help either. And my dad still treats me like a kid,that doesnt help either. Do you have parents who still treat you like a kid?
Like others have said,your appearance can only go so far and i honestly think the personality is what gets the guy. So i understand what youre saying about the personality being the problem. And dont feel bad about being 22 and still single,i didnt get a boyfriend until i was 26,and he was an immature loser with very few friends. I only dated him cuz he had long hair and played guitar (which is my weakness,musicians). Please don't settle on just anyone like i did! It's a waste of your time cuz you're never fully happy and it only keeps you from finding someone who you would be happy with.
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