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so what now, am I just immature or a loser?
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hell no, pretty much nobody really understands women and is completely fearless. Every guy has stories of how shockingly dumb they've acted around girls. Hell, the first time I kissed a girl it was kind of similar, I spent so much time being to chicken to kiss her when it was blatently obvious what was going on it was just rediulous
(her:"want to come back to my place for coffee?" me:"its 3am, why would I want coffee at this time of..........oooooooh.")
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Like last summer, I was on a rooftop with a girl watching a sunset, and her face was particularly a centimeter away from my face, but I didn't do anything
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the correct procedure at this point is to mentally yell "kamikazi!" and go for it. Accept that you're quite possibly making a mistake and dive in anyway! Seriously, the worst that happens if you're misreading things is you end up with an awkward conversation and then back to normal in a minute.
Its just one of those things where you have to look at your fears, man up and wade in knowing that at the end of the day you'll still be alive...it'll make you a stronger person in the end.
If you've got lots of girls around then you've already got half the battle done. All you need to do now is get them thinking of you as a potential boyfriend/fling/whatever too.
Its pretty much as simple as Fullcrum said. Be up close and personal, flirt, make wild accusations with a cheeky grin on your face about them staring at your bum and how you won't stand for them treating you like a sex object.
(err...balance all that with not being too creepy of course, learn to read how she reacts and all that)