 the Whammy
The real issue is that people are attracted to whats in their past. I have been going after emotionally unavailable women for quite a while. I have recently come to realize what my pattern was. The problem is that it is easy to get yourself in trouble if you really like someone. I had a small fling with a really really good friend of mine recently and she is going through a divorce. A classic emotionally unavailable ... Since we have a really deep friendship I fooled myself into thinking that she was different. NOT SO!!!!!!! Shes a classic garentee pattern. The thing about it though was that I kept an eye on myself through the whole thing and learned sooooo much.
At the end of the day the good guy bad guy thing does not have much to do with it... Its how you say what you say and how you make her feel...
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