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Originally Posted by Plato  I guess you've never tried going out and intentionally getting rejected by multitudes of girls? At first it's like ripping off plasters but there comes a point where you realise it doesn't hurt... and the more creatively you go about getting rejected the more fun you start having... and the more difficult it becomes to get those damn girls to reject you.  |
Why would I wanna go out and get rejected by multiple women? A lot of women, who I find physically attractive, I actually find quite repugnant, personality wise, in their attitudes and mannerisms. I don't need to go out and play silly head games (mostly with myself), or getting rejected on purpose. Okay, if other people do, but it's just not for me.
It's also like, what do you gravitate towards? For me, it's myself; by that, I mean the energy and awareness within my own being, I focus on that, like a light, and more and more I find my each moment of life to be bliss. When you focus on that light within you, it gets brighter, and feeds you, emotionally, and other people notice it too; when you're not chasing women (instead, you focus on your own inner light), they start to show a lot more interest in you, and you're just indifferent, but still polite.
I just don't hold much hope though, because I notice most nice looking ladies, who I find physically attractive, to be quite shallow. I guess they're used to being in a position of power with most men, and it gets to their heads? That said, it would be nice to meet someone attractive, and also with depth and self-awareness.
That's how it is for me, and I don't do stupid silly games with people, and I just be myself, sincere. How people react to me, well, that's their business.