[Joely]

I think the question you have to ask is "How badly do you want to live that life?" because if you really, truly want something to be, you'll be prepared to stop at nothing to get it.

The difference between people living the life of their dreams and those who don't is that those who do are prepared to put everything on the line, change everything they need to, accept everything else and just work as hard as they can with total focus to get there.

To be honest, not everybody wants to be the biggest band in history. There's space for people who're going to be the next Beatles, the next Rolling Stones, and there's space for people like my brother who just want to play gigs on weekends, or my good friends who are gigging and touring all the time and getting on radio and national TV. Not every writer wants to be J K Rowling. There's room in the universe for everybody's desires, if only they have the courage to go for them.

Here's a suggestion for you Rockchick. So far, you've been thinking of all the things that might get in your way. What about turning that thinking around from "That won't work" to "How do I make it work?"

Of course, you have to really, really want it to be to make it happen.