I like the fact you talk about gratitude- it's a great thing and I'm glad you've reminded me of it too. The thing that strikes me about gratitude is that you must be grateful for everything- and that includes your challenges, set backs and lessons. And that's exactly the most productive way to look at this.
Whatever happens, you shouldn't blaim her for anything because it doesn't achieve anything apart from you feeling sorry for yourself and honestly- she didn't do anything wrong. Maybe it was ON but something happened to ruin it- I could speculate about what that was and so could you. However, the best thing you can do is move on. Don't get hung up on this one girl, and don't label her a "♥♥♥♥♥" or whatever because only losers get bitter when a girl isn't into them and you're better than that, or you wouldn't be here.
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