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Originally Posted by Plato  I (think I) know what you're talking about assuming you're a heterosexual guy? I think a lot of guys go through this (incluidng me) and my conclusion is that porn is to blaim. It makes us view women as objects of desire and is overall pretty unhealthy for our minds.
So my suggestions are what I'm also trying out myself. Don't watch porn, at all, and meditate and practice relaxation. I don't know if the new agey stuff will help but it's shown to make it easier to connect with other people on a deep and genuine level. Basically I think the solution is doing whatever it takes to open up your love pump (no you sickos I'm talking about the heart ! ) |
*laughs* No, I'm a girl, not entirely hetero- or homosexual. I should have mentioned something in the first post, sorry. But still, it made me laugh, so thank you. The way assumptions work and all that.
The only time I was attracted to someone was (looking back) far more lust than love, and probably came about because I was very depressed and she was too, and you know, like to like kinda thing. (Besides, even though I've moved on and wouldn't associate with her today, she was quite nice to look at.) But anyone else that's shown interest has caught me with their minds, not their looks, so I think Jennihul may have something there with that.
I love deep and genuine. I just have trouble opening up that much.
Be well!
Wolverine