Do you ever try to fantasize/visualize your ideal romantic experience? If so, what it is about that person that puts him/her in the class of ideal?
If not, why not give it a shot?
Maybe you just aren't overly concerned with looks and are mistaking that for disinterest when, rather, getting to know someone on a deep level would have far more of an effect for you....
It wouldn't be unheard of to have a certain brain center that is damaged or malformed that simply prevents you from having that particular primal signal of "attraction."
I was fascinated by the book Excitotoxins, by Russell Blaylock. It seems that if additives in our foods could cause neuron death quite easily, resulting in diseases like Parkinson's, Alzheimer's, MS, ALS, etc...then it is conceivable that it can also affect one's sexual preference since the areas of the brain that are vulnerable to these toxins also have some influence on sexuality.
Jennifer |