[Greki]

Originally Posted by tommyboy567

wow.. your like a mini me. both majoring in international relations. I am kinda in the same situation. my speech pattern are slower then my thinking process. I have the frequency to use complex speech pattern in my mind but as soon as i talk it sometime sounds bad. A good way for you to improve on this is read stuff out loud. Try to join a debate team or an organization that incorporate public speaking. Also a great way is look in the mirror and talk. practice your speech that way.

Oh, thanks a bunch! That seems to be a great idea! And yes, it seems we have the same problem. By the way, how long have you been studying? Perhaps we could be study partners?

Originally Posted by veranadine

Hmmm...I would think that an actual etiquette (or finishing school) type of class would be appropriate.

This may sound like a silly step to take but I have often considered it myself.

No, I do not consider it silly. I have been reading some books in etiquette, however I haven't been able to locate a class on it... or one that I can afford, at least. That's also a something that limits me a lot.

Originally Posted by veranadine

As far as the slang words go, and perhaps your local accent is you have one, I would think about either taking a diction class or hiring a dialect coach (like actors use.)

This may be expensive though, so just keep your eyes open for any good books dealing with these subjects and be proud of yourself for starting (and sticking with) the Toastmasters.

I think that you are doing great, and these actions that you've already taken will help you immensely.

Blessings on all that you do,

Dialect coach? I didn't know there was something like that. I think I will seek some out. Yeah, I think Toastmasters is a blessing from heaven. Thanks a lot!

Originally Posted by Joely

Everyone here has given great suggestions, and I definitely think you should follow through on them. However, the real engine behind how you talk is your confidence. Going to these classes will really help build that, but in some senses it's all about having a sense of confidence about your speech and just enjoying what you're saying.

I'm sure you'll find the magic! Good luck,

J x

Oh, thanks, but I definitely do not have confindence issues. I believe in myself a lot thanks to Karate, it's just that I prefer not to talk... and when I need to talk I have a little bit of issues getting myself understood. That's all.


Thanks a bunch for all of your suggestions!