Twenty-five,
You can overcome this!
Your feelings of insecurity and anxiety are probably apparent to those around you. It may appear that these feelings are well hidden within your mind, but through subtle or maybe not-so-subtle actions, people sense a bad vibe.
They may not understand that it is insecurity and anxiety. All they feel is a not-so good vibe. This vibe, which stems from your feelings of insecurity, can drive people away, including her.
The solution: Change your internal programming.
It’s like a software program that has some bugs, or maybe even a virus. In my experience as an IT guy, the cleanest way to get rid of software bugs is to reinstall with the newer version of software. And you’re the person to write the program to do this.
In your situation, I suggest writing out a script on how you’d like to feel and how you’d like your relationship to go. Write it in the present tense.
For example, you could say something like:
“I feel so secure and confident with her. I’m myself with her and she loves me for it. I’m very happy and confident about our relationship. As a result, I emit a fantastic vibe that makes her want to be around me even more. When she is apart from me, I’m able to enjoy the present moment, knowing she is faithful….and so on.”
Once you have written your ideal script on how you’d like things, then read it often and make adjustments as needed. Keep your script positive. You’ll be amazed to see that it will come true. You’ll be happier and will emit the right vibe, who those around you will quickly pick up on, including her.
Good luck!
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