Become more emotionally open?
Hi all,
I've been reading the 'Social Intelligence' book. Great read although would have been better with some practical advice.
Due to my past I have become emotionally clammed, unless I'm specifically meeting someone. If a person interacts with me I've got no problem, but when it comes to general things like smiling at a stranger, say an attractive woman, I find it near impossible.
And I cannot make myself appear happy. I don't look grumpy or whatever but I want to be one of those people who has a twinkle in their eye, or a small smile on their face even when they're by themselves and not interacting with someone. They're the type of person that other people gravitate towards.
Any thoughts on what I can do? Is there any free subliminal mp3's or something that I can listen to?
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