I'll start by saying that weed is no big deal to me.
That said, I think it's a big deal in this situation. There's a huge difference between being a regular Joe pothead and being taken from your family for 8 months because you came up dirty. You made some choices in the past that are still with you. Your wife must have had a really difficult time knowing you would risk leaving her and your daughter behind just so you could smoke. And now, she sees it as a possiblity again. I am not saying that loving someone means doing what they think you should. But really, what is more important, weed or your family?
Make your choice and take it from there.
|