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Originally Posted by GreenLife  Hi. I have a problem and I don't know how to solve it.
When I alone I control all my minds, write daily and weekly plans and comprehend every minute of my life. But when I start to tell with somebody this control always disappears, so it's very difficult to me to keep in mind all my plans in this situation. |
So don't tell people then!
No, seriously. Other people will often criticise your ideas to "be helpful" or "protect you".
Also, I don't know about you, but once I've described an idea to someone else, my brain seems to put an "completed" tick against that idea, like I've transferred ownership of it.
If you want to pursue your idea yourself, keep it to yourself - and pursue it.
P.S. Being in or out of society isn't a lifetime choice. You can claim some time for yourself to do things, then reimmerse yourself in society. We need both together time and alone time.