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Old 04-02-2008, 12:49 AM   #83 (permalink)
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Is it because now that you've experienced trust, it feels like you can "lose" it, and then you'll be diminished? Like you've "invested" something and you could easily come out behind? That's how it's sort of been occurring for me the last few days, even though in my head I realize I can't be diminished or lose anything of value. Still.
Maybe, although I don't know exactly what you mean by "experienced trust".

It's difficult to describe. Like everything I ever thought that what attraction was, no longer applied, and I feel foolish, for thinking that everything that happened meant that she was attracted to me. And now I'll have no idea if someone else is actually interested in me that way, as I won't be able to tell.

If men are suppose to be "bad" at picking up those sort of "I'm interested" hints dropped by women, just imagine how little I can detect now (even before I met her, I wouldn't even consider myself on par with the other guys abilities of being able to notice them).

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You, on the other hand, doubt you can ever trust another woman and are reluctant to have another relationship. You also wrote somewhere that woman are born manipulators. Well, you might be wrong about that.
I don't remember saying that.

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What would it take for you to trust a woman?
That's just it, I don't know if it's possible, as I'm asking via the thread title.

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And, do you believe in love?
I think that's too general of a question..... what kind? And under what circumstances?
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