OK, dancer, we really do have some kind of freaky connection going today.
Your post in this thread earlier today.
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Originally Posted by dancer  I have come to learn that it is really about trusting myself. I do not mean trusting myself not to betray another, but do I trust that I will survive, on an emotional level, if someone betrays me. Of course I will. Will it hurt? Absolutely, but will I get through it? ABSOLUTELY.
James, when you hand your power over to another then you are giving them the power to hurt you. You are making them responsible for your happiness and unhappiness. |
My post in a different thread - after you posted here but before I read it.
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Originally Posted by Lola One thing I am learning about trust is it's really nothing to do with trusting anyone else. It's all about trusting myself. Trusting that I'll be ok, safe, unharmed, etc, etc, regardless of the actions of others. Does that make sense? Trying to be more trusting of others feels like it's dependent on what, why, how someone else does something, thereby taking the power to trust out of my hands. |
wanna play telepathy?
