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Originally Posted by jamestl2  Well, don't relationships "require" you to trust the other person? If you don't, is it really a relationship?
Besides the pain I felt being alone and by myself (before I met her) was FAR LESS less painful than after everything that happened to me (if you could really call it "pain" then, because it didn't really bother me that much). |
Trust is very important to me. In my past relationships it has been something I have given from day one. As I told you earlier in this thread, I was cheated on and that person lost my trust. So, he did something which caused me not to trust him. It hurt like hell, but in hindsight it was a great lesson where I learnt much about myself and it was something from which I have grown. I also recognised signs that were there very early in the relationship, which I chose to ignore. I experienced a cheater, but I do not believe all men are cheaters and am willing to give my trust to the next man in my life.
You, on the other hand, doubt you can ever trust another woman and are reluctant to have another relationship. You also wrote somewhere that woman are born manipulators. Well, you might be wrong about that.
What would it take for you to trust a woman? And, do you believe in love?