Carenkh, I love it when you get vulgar!
Yeah, pumpkin, like carenkh is saying, it looks like you may be collapsing "love and accept" and "stay together" as if they are one and the same. But sometimes "love and accept" means letting someone go. If I'm going to break up with someone (which it doesn't look like is going to happen anytime soon, by the way
), I would rather be happy for him than bitter and resentful and thinking thoughts of how different he *should* be.