careful what you wish for- being a "guy magnet" sounds pretty hellish... I mean do you really want every guy falling all over you? ugh! be a happy confident version of yourself, put yourself in situations to meet a lot of different people that you find interesting (for me that is smiling at guys in the bookstore, volunteer teaching an ESL class, playing rec soccer... I like smart international compassionate active guys- for you could be totally different), put a bit of short-term effort into looking nice and appropriate for the situations (look like you want to be there...), and if there seems to be an attraction with some guy then flirt a bit and let him have your number- it isn't that hard...
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