It's not a question of whether you love him or not. You can love someone even if they abuse you. Look at kids and their abusive parents.
The question here is how much you love yourself. You can see logically that you need to get out. Act on that. Then, when your energy is stronger and more clear, and you're not under his emotional influence anymore, make your next decision. Do not believe him when he says he will change. Let him "change" without you.
Are you economically dependent on him? Are you able to move away from him and take care of your survival needs?
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Erin Pavlina, Intuitive Counselor
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